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Saturday, September 11, 2010

HOW TO APPLY FOR THE PRESENT LIVES

Divorce case :- Husband ; Wife : Parents and family members of husband ; parents and family members of wife ; reasons for divorce =addl. demands of dowry, harassment , impotency, non adjustments, psychological problems, and cruelty, etc.,.Due to greediness the question of additional demands for dowry would arise and it's consequences are generally harassment, cruelty etc.,.Due to egoism or due to personality conflicts psychological problems would arise and it's general consequences are non-adjustment, harassment, cruelty follows.Non-adjustments are two types , one is due to personality conflict and another is due to escape from liabilities. Generally the problem of additional dowry come from bridegroom family and non-adjustment come from bride family.The lost one impotency may come from wife and husband.--------------------------------------------GREEDY IS SYMBOL OF MATA KAIKEYA; THE ENTIRE FAMILY OF BRIDEGROOM OR THE BRIDEGROOM MAY FALL AS PRAY FOR THIS GREEDY ANIMAL . EVEN THOUGH ANY ONE IS AGAINST TO THAT BAD EVIL, HE/SHE IS NOT IN A POSITION TO RAISE HIS/HER VOICE AND KEPT HIMSELF/HERSELF AS DASRATHA for one reason or the other. ------------------------------------------------------------NON-ADJUSTMENT IS THE SYMBOL OF MATA KAIKEYA; THE ENTIRE FAMILY OF BRIDE OR BRIDE HERSELF MAY FALL AS A PRAY FOR THIS NON-ADJUSTMENT ANIMAL, EVEN THOUGH ANY ONE OPPOSE TO IT , MAY NOT ABLE TO RAISE THEIR VOICE AND BECOME DUMB AS DASRATHA for one reason or the other.Since nobody is coming forward as SREE Rama follower of dharma and discipline and BHARATHA follower of love and sacrifice, the newly married couples flight is crashing down miserably.The problem is not between wife and husband like in the cases of impotency. The problem is between the two families and each family think that they are correct and blaming the others. Generally provokes and re provokes would play a major role in these family disputes.So many family members act like Mata Mandara and provoking them at each and every time without giving any time to rethink. If each one of the family members follows the GRUHASTA ASHRAM dharma as did by Sree Rama and Bharatha and other personalities of Ramayana WHILE FOLLOWING RAJ-DHARMA , no plight would occur in the families and the question of divorce doesn't arise. As per Gruhasta ashram dharma only Mata Sita follows Rama in the forest.Since Mata Sita is his wife, Sree Rama took her to him without sending her to her parents house nor demanded her to get another Country for him as dowry.

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