DUTY [DHARMA] - SACRIFICE [DUE TO LOVE ]

The Guru Vashist and Maharaj Janaka clearly stated that the entire world is sustained on the word Dharma . The Dharma is rigorous and pious and personal , each and every one of us have to follow it and obey it as it is a final and eternal. Mata Kousalya clearly stated to Bharatha that even though Rama would follow her directions without questioning any thing , she could not ask the Rama not to follow the right path of Dharma and come back to Ayodhya without going in to forest for 14 years. Our feelings and our emotions and our loves and affections should not become as speed breakers , diverting the one not to follow the right path as it is not happy to them and as it is painful to them. Like wise, Sree Rama also asked Mata Kaikeya, whether he could leave the right path as nobody is there to question him. Sree Rama also said to Bharata that the Dharma could not be exchanged as a thing of barter system and it is purely a personal duty, each and every one has to follow , then only the society would sustain. when the situation arise what to do, in following Dharma or in following affections, one has to give priority to the Dharma only but not to love and affections and pains. In our day to day lives also, one would certainly has to face this type of problem at a certain point. For example in the middle class families, we are seeing so many quarrels in the day today family affairs and one is not able to solve the family problems as one is not able to say anything to any one in the family because of love and affections. In the Rama period, there were so many people like Guru Vashist, Raj Janka, Mata Kousalya, Mata Kaikeya , Mantri Sumatha ,to solve the problems. Bharatha is a symbol of sacrifice whereas Rama is the symbol of dharma. Of course, in the present society , we can not find such a beautiful personalities, even in our family members also but that does not mean that they are all cruel, selfish, loveless, and against to the ethics, morals, and dharma. When compared with the Society of that days and the present Society, so many changes have occurred and so many developments have emerged and stress life become a passion to our generation.For Keeping stress less and painless life, one has to judge himself and to find the thin line between dharma and love, and one has to follow the dharma as practicable as possible by giving values to morals and ethics of our lives, then only the society would be good in turn we would be also keep good.