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14. GIVING RESPECT TO THE OPPOSITE PARTY AND ITS MEN, IS ESSENTIAL. RAMA ALWAYS GAVE RESPECT TO THE RAVANA AND HIS MEN. WHERE AS IT IS LACKING NOW A DAYS. ONLY THE CHIRANJEEVI FOLLOWING THE SAME PRINCIPLE OF RAMA AND ALSO Mr. JAYA PRAKASH NARAYANA ALSO FOLLOWING THE SAME IN A.P.POLITICS. 15. ABUSING OTHERS IN WORST LANGUAGE BECOMES A PASSION OF THE DAYS. AND FURTHER MORE PLAYING POLITICS FOR THE SAKE OF POLITICS ALSO BECOME A HABIT OF THESE DAYS. 16. EVEN RAVANA AND MINISTRY DISCUSSED ABOUT THE CONCERNED TOPICS OF SITA AND ITS EFFECTS. AND NOT ONLY VIBHISHANA, SO MANY BIG PEOPLE ALSO OPPOSED RAVANA. NOW A DAYS NO BODY IS TALKING ABOUT THE ISSUES AND PROBLEMS OF THE SOCIETY , SITA = ISSUE OF THEIR SOCIETY = THEIR PRIDE , THEIR PROBLEM, THEIR SURVIVAL . THEIR = ENTIRE RAMARAJYA. LORD SRI RAMA BOUT IS NOT A SINGLE MAN BOUT FOR SINGLE PURPOSE OF HIS OWN. IT IS A GREAT BOUT FOR ESTABLISHING THE PEACE AND DHARMA OF THE SOCIETY IN THOSE DAYS AS BOTH ARE RUINED BY THE RAKSHASA S LIKE RAVANA. FOR SIMPLICITY AND FOR TELLING LIKE A STORY, IT IS DESCRIBED LIKE THAT. BECAUSE THE VERY PURPOSE OF THEIR BIRTHS ARE ONLY FOR ERADICATING THE RAKSHASA JAATI AND FOR ESTABLISHING DHARMA .

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7. WHEN A DAMAGE WAS OCCURRED , ONE MUST KNOW HOW TO BUILD A COVERAGE OVER THE DAMAGE/HOW TO REDUCE THE IMPACT OF THE DAMAGE, CAUSED BY OPPOSITE PARTY.8. ONE MUST GET THE REAL ASSESSMENTS OF HIS WORTH AND VALOROUS, INSTEAD OF EULOGIZING OF THEMSELVES AS DID RAVANA AND HIS CULT . 8. NOW A DAYS ALSO, ALL THE POLITICAL PARTIES ARE DOING THE SAME THING AS DID BY RAVANA IN THOSE DAYS ITSELF.9. ONE MUST GIVE AN ATTENTION AND A CREDIT TO THE TRUTH SPEAKER OF THEIR PARTY = BECAUSE ONE CAN SEE SO MANY VIBHISHANAS IN EACH AND EVERY PARTY EVEN-TODAY ALSO. BUT NO BODY IS PAYING ATTENTION AS DID BY RAVANA. ALL THE PARTIES ARE FOLLOWING THE SAME PATH OF RAVANA.10. AVOID THE PAMPERS AND PIMPS TO SPEAK AGAINST THE TRUTH SPEAKER. BECAUSE A TRUE FOLLOWER CANNOT HAVE CAPACITY TO ANALYSE THE SITUATIONS AND STILL HE WOULD BE IN STIGMA THAT HIS MASTER IS SUPER MAN - OTHERWISE HE CANNOT FOLLOW HIM WITHOUT THAT FEELING.NATURALLY THOSE PAMPERS AND PIMPS OPPOSE THE WISE ADVISER . RAVANA SON AND OTHER SUBORDINATES ARE ONLY BLIND FOLLOWERS OF RAVANA AND AS SUCH THEY ARE NOT ABLE JUDGE WHAT IS CORRECT AND SIMPLY UNDER CONSTANT FEELING THAT THEIR MASTER IS SUPREME AS EARLIER . 11. NOW A DAYS ALSO ALL THE POLITICAL PARTIES ARE SURROUND BY THESE TYPE OF PAMPERS AND PIMPS.12. ONE SHOULD NOT INSULT ANY ONE EVEN THOUGH HE OPPOSED US.AS DID BY THE GREAT LEGEND ACTOR CHIRANJIVEE DID NOW A DAYS IN ORDER TO COVER THE DAMAGE /TO REDUCE THE DAMAGE THAT IS GOING TO BE CAUSED BY THE OPPOSED PERSONALITY. 12.BUT RAVANA AND ALL POLITICAL PARTIES NOW A DAYS ALSO FOLLOWING THE WORST PATH OF RAVANA AND GETTING INVOLVED THEMSELVES IN TO THE DEFEAT.

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1. RECOGNIZING THE TRUE WORKER AND APPRECIATING HIS DEEDS. = SRI RAMA APPRECIATED THE LORD HANUMA AFTER RETURNING FROM LANKA WITH MASSIVE VICTORY. 2. NOW A DAYS IT IS LACKING AND ON OTHER HAND THE POLITICIAN ARE NOT ABLE TO FIND OUT WHO IS THE TRUE WORKER OR NOT. 3. ONE MUST MAINTAIN A GOOD AND WONDERFUL INNER CIRCLE FOR SHARING THE EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS. = LORD SREE RAMA BESTOWED WITH LAKSHMAN , SUGREEVA, HANUMA, JAMBAVANTH ETC., 4. NOW A DAYS THE POLITICIANS ARE NOT EVEN BELIEVING THEIR SHADOWS ALSO AND ARE ALL LIVING IN UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATIONS. 5.NEED OF KEEN OBSERVATIONS OF THE OTHER SIDE STRENGTH AND EMOTIONS AND THEIR STRATEGICS. 6. NOW DAYS OVER ESTIMATION OR OVER CONFIDENCES ARE LAGGING THE ALL POLITICAL LEADERS WHILE ASSESSING THE OTHER SIDE STRENGTH AND OF THEIR OWN STRENGTH = LIKE THE GREAT LEGEND ACTOR CHIRANJEEVI OF THESE DAYS

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WHEN WE COMPARED THOSE DAYS WITH THE PRESENT DAYS, WE CAN SEE THE HASTI-MASK- ANTHER = ONE CANNOT COMPARE THE MOSQUITO WITH AN WILD ELEPHANT. SUCH IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THESE TWO PERIODS. EVERY CITIZEN MUST GO THROUGH WITH RAMAYANA ESPECIALLY THE YUDDHA KANDA FOR KNOWING THE POLITICS AND STRATEGICS OF THOSE GOLDEN DAYS.

PHYSICAL FEATURES OF LORD SRI RAMA

EVERY THING IS WITH IN THE TIME FRAME AS SAID BY LORD BRAHMA, THE SREE RAMA , POSSESSED WITH LONG ARMS UP TO HIS KNEES CALLED AS AAJANU BHAHU, FOR HOLDING A WONDERFUL BOWS -DHANNASU OF GODS LIKE LORD SIVA, LORD VISHNU AND LORD VARUNA BY AGASTYA. HIS EYES LIKE THAT OF WIDE AS MUCH AS LOTUSES. HIS CHEEK BONES ARE VERY HIGH SHOWING HIS STRONG DETERMINATIONS ON HIS FACE ITSELF. HIS BODY COLOR COMPLEX IS THAT OF A WONDERFUL COLOR COMPLEX, NO BODY POSSESSED, EXCEPT HIGH SKY MOVED CLOUDS , HAVING SUCH A BEAUTIFUL BRIGHTNESS WITH THE SUN RAYS BEHIND IT'S BACK. AND HIS THIGHS AND LEGS ARE THAT OFF FULLY MUSCLED AND POWERED LIKE THAT OFF SIBERIAN TIGERS. HAVING A WONDERFUL NOES WIT H BEAUTIFUL CURVE TIPS AT THE END POSING LIKE STRAIGHT DAGGER. IN ALL AND IN TOTAL LORD SREE RAMA IS LORD SREE RAMA, NO BODY SUITS LIKE HIM, INCOMPARABLE. THE PHYSICAL FEATURES OF LORD RAMA.

DISCUSSION BETWEEN NARADA AND VALMEEKI

EVERY THING IS WITH IN THE TIME FRAME AS SAID BY PARAJPATHI - BRHAMMA, I WOULD LIKE TO DESCRIBE THE OUT LINE OF SRI RAMA AND HIS LIFE. WHY THE BIRTH OF SRI RAMA WAS TAKEN PLACE. WHAT WAS HIS DESTINY. HOW HE WOULD PRESENT HIMSELF BEFORE THE WORLD AND THE VERY PURPOSE OF HIS BIRTH IN THIS WORLD. THE ACCOMPANIES WHO BORN ALONG WITH HIM TO CARRY THE MISSION OF HIS VERY BIRTH. AND FURTHER LISTEN MAHARISHI VALMEEKI - IN THIS GREAT MISSION, YOU TOO BESTOWED WITH A DUTY TO CODIFY AND DOCUMENTATION THE ENTIRE MISSION OF SRI RAMA. ON QUIRE, THE MAHARISHI NARADA WENT ON SAYING AND PICTOGRAPHS THE LIFE AND FIGURE OF LORD SRI RAMA BEFORE THE EYES OF MAHARISHI VALMEEKI, BY HIS WONDERFUL SWEET VOICE. YES , LORD SREE RAMA WITH WIDE FOREHEAD FOR PLACING A BEAUTIFUL CROWN FOR ADORNING HIS HIGH HEAD. HIS SHOULDERS STRONGER AND HIGHER THAN THE MIGHTY HIMALAYANS , HIS CHEST AND WAIST LIKE THAT OF WELL GROWN UP MRUGA RAJ -THE GREAT LION.

THE LIFE OF SREE RAMA -CHAPTER -I BALA KANDA

ONCE, THE TRILOKA SANCHARI MAHARISHI NARADA, APPROACHED SRI VALMEEKI MAHARISHI AND ASKED HIM TO SCRIBE THE STORY OF SRIMADRAMAYAN MAHA KAVYA. MAHARISHI NARADA ON QUERY OF VALMEEKI, DESCRIBED SREE RAMA AS RAMO VIGRAHA VAN DHARMA. PHYSICAL FEATURES OF LORD SRI RAMA 1. WITH WIDE FOREHEAD -LIKE EMPEROR - FOR CORONATION OF A CROWN. 2. POSSESSED LION LIKE CHEST -VISALA VAKSHASTALA AND HAVING LION LIKE LOIN -SINGAPU NADUMU. 3. AAJANU BHAHU - HAVING LONG HANDS UP TO KNEES WITH STRONG AND MIGHTY SHOULDERS OF ROUND SHAPED. 4. LOTUS LIKE WIDE EYES AND WITH HIGH CHEEK MANDIBLES . 5.SNIGDHA -VARNA = GOOD COMPLEX , WITH SHINNING BRIGHT BODY.

BEST ENVOY

ANGADA – MESSAGE – WHY RAMA SEND ANGADA WITH A NO WAR MESSAGE ? AS IF THERE IS ANY CHANCES OF RELISATION IN THE MIND SET OF RAVANA, TO AVOID THE WAR.POLITICAL CODE OF BRIHASPATI SAYS THAT AN OPPORTUNITY IS TO BE GIVEN TO THE ENEMY FOR SURRENDER AND TO HAVE A CHANCE OF AVOIDING WAR. THE WAR IS THE LAST THING AS IT TERMINATES THE SO MANY LIVES FORM THE EARTH- CREATING MISHAP IN THEIR LIVES. “POLITICAL CODE OF BRIHASPATHI “CLEARLY DISCLOSES THE WELL ESTABLISHED SYSTEM AND OF INTERNATIONAL STNADARDS OF TRETAYUGA. RAMA ALSO STATED THE STANDRDS OF A MESSENGER; AN ENVOY MUST BE A WISE AND GREAT WARRIOR AND HAS TO PERSUADE THE OTHER WITH SWEET HEART AND OTHERS HAVE NO CHANCE TO DENY THE VOICE OF ENVOY AND AT THE SAME TIME THE ENVOY HAS TO ESTABLISH THE GREATNESS OF HIS LORD. THE ENOVY MUST PROVE THAT HIS MISSION IS ONLY TO GIVE AN OPPORTUNITY AS PER DHARMA BUT NOT FOR BEGGING A PEACE. THE ENVOYS ARE CALLED NOWADYAS AS DIPLOMATES WHO ARE UTTERLY FAILED TO DISCHARGE THEIR DUTIES IN THE IMPORTANT MISSIONS. ESTABLISHING A PEACE IS NOT BEGGING FOR PEACE. COWARDLY SPEAKING DOES NOT PROVE THE GOODNESS OF ENVOY. THE ENOVY MUST KNOW AND MUST PROVE THAT HE IS NOT SPEAKING COWARDLY AND IS ONLY SPEAKING FOR PROVIDING A CHANCE TO THEM FOR RECONCILATION AND OVERTHINK AGAIN BEFORE GETTING DAMAGED SEVERALLY BY THE ATTACK OF ENOVY GROUP. THIS KIND ENVOY SHIP IS NOT ONLY ESSENTIAL IN WAR LIKE LIFE BUT ALSO IS AN ESSENTIAL PART OF NOWADAYS LIFE OF EACH AND EVERY ONE TO AVOID UNSEEN ENEMIES FROM PAYING HURDLES FOR OUR VENTURES AND ALSO FOR LEADING A HAPPY HOME

BROTHERS- VERSES -BROTHERS

RAMA AND LAKSHMAN - VALI AND SUGREEVA - RAVANA AND VIBHISHANA - BHARATA AND SATRUGHNA ; ALL ARE BROTHERS AS SAID ABOVE. ONE PAIR REGARDED AS IDOL FOR BROTHERLY HOOD WHEREAS OTHERS ARE NOT; EVEN TODAY ALSO RAMA AND LAKSHMAN REGARDED AS GOOD PAIR OF BROTHERS; FOR VALI, VALI ALONE DESTROYED, WHEREAS RAVANA DESTROYED ENTIRE RACE OF HIM, IN SPITE OF THEIR RESPECTIVE BROTHERS PLEAS AND ADVISES; IN BOTH CASES ,OTHER BROTHER BECAME THE CAUSE OF THE DEATH OF THEIR PAIR BROTHER WHO DISCLOSES THE WEAK POINTS OF THEIR RESPECTIVE BROTHERS IN DUALS WITH RAMA

SUNDARAKANDA- DESTROYS ALL WORRIES

YES, SUNDARAKANDA DESTROYS ALL SORROWS ; HANUMA BRINGS HAPPINESS TO THE MATA SITA; ON SEEING HANUMA, MATA SITA'S ALL HOPES COMES TO LIVE; LANKA IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE IN THE WORLD; MAYA CREATED IT WITH WONDERFUL ARCHITECTURE ; TRAVELLING OVER SEAS IS ALSO A BEAUTIFUL ONE. THAT'S WHY, THIS KANDA IS CALLED AS SUNDARAKANDA; EVEN TO DAY ALSO PEOPLE BELIEVES THAT READING REPEATEDLY [PARAYANAM] SUNDARAKANDA IN THEIR DIFFICULTY PERIODS, ALL THE PROBLEMS WOULD BE SOLVED BY LORD HANUMA ; EVEN TODAY ALSO WE ARE EXPERIENCING THE SAME FEELINGS OF MATA SITA WHEN WE ARE ALONE IN FAR ABODE PLACE FOR THE PURPOSE OF EDUCATION ETC., IF ONE IS HAPPEN TO SEE THE DEAREST ONE OR THEIR MESSENGERS, ALL OF A SUDDEN, THE JOY WILL BE INCREASED TERRIBLE. ALL OUR WORRIES, ALOOFNESS ETC., GOES DOWN SUDDENLY AND WE FEEL HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY ; MATA SITA ALSO EXPERIENCED THE SAME THING AFTER SEEING HANUMA, AFTER HEARING ABOUT RAMA FROM THE VERY MOUTH OF HANUMA AND ALL HER SORROWS WENT DOWN LIKE A MELTING ICE; THAT'S WHY, IT IS JUST AND NECESSARY FOR EVERY ONE TO HAVE THEIR OWN DEARS AND NEARS IN THEIR CIRCLES AND IN THEIR FRIENDSHIPS WHO BRINGS ALL HAPPINESS IF ONE IS IN TROUBLES; SOME THINGS CANNOT BE SCALED DOWN WITH RUPEES / DOLLARS ; THOSE ARE THE THINGS ABOVE SAID WHICH CANNOT BE VALUED IN TERMS OF MONEY; ONE MUST POSSESS THOSE VIRTUES, OTHER WISE HE WILL BE TREATED AS ALOOF EVEN THOUGH HE HAS GOT PLENTY OF MONEY. SO LEARN SOMETHING FROM RAMAYANA ABOUT HOW TO LIVE LIFE AS EVERYTHING IS WITHIN THE TIME FRAME AND EVERY INCIDENT WOULD COME ACROSS AS DIRECTED BY DIRECTOR OF ONE'S LIFE, THESE SIMPLE THINGS WOULD APPEAR AS GREAT THINGS WHILE IN TROUBLES; SOME PROBLEMS WILL COME BY OUR FAULTS WHICH CAN BE CURABLE AND RECTIFIED BY US OURSELVES AND SOME PROBLEMS WILL COME AS DECIDED EARLIER THOSE WE CANNOT ESCAPE BUT BY OUR EFFORTS AND BY OUR GOOD CIRCLES OF FRIENDS ETC., WE CAN REDUCE THE SERIOUS VIBRATIONS OF THE BAD HAPPENINGS IN OUR LIVES. WHAT RAMAYANA SAYS THAT BE BOLD IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES AND HOPE GOOD AT EVERY MOVEMENT OF LIFE. THEN ONLY SUCCESS WILL BE IN YOUR POCKET.

ORGANISATIONS - SPYING - DIPLOMACY - PRESENT DAYS

KISHKINDA KANDA - The very beginning of this Khanda explores the way of organisation, spying, diplomacy , development of contracts , achievement of goals. The group discussions among the King Sugreeva, Jambavanth, Neelu, Hanuma clearly shows the way of viewing the problems and adoptions of methods to solve the problems etc., Now a days also so many groups and leaders are following the same Technics and getting positive success but the miserable things is that they are not using the same for the welfare of the society and only for their welfare .

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HOW TO ESTABLISH GOOD RELATIONS AMONG FAMILY MEMBERS

Sree Rama and Lakshman -verses- Vali and Sugreeva = symbol of brothers= one is for love and another is for hate. The entire Ramayana stands for the ideal of brotherly hood but the Vali and Sugreeva hate-redness shows the other side face of the coin. This is the correct juncture to judge oneself what is right and what is wrong . When problems come in ones life and when one fell into dilemma to do what. By comparing situations one can come to a right judgement. Rama and his brothers stood for scarifies and for love and there is no room for suspicion , hat-redness, jealousy and greediness. Where as among the Vali and Sugreeva , all the negative aspects were prevailed and every thing was covered by hat-redness. Like wise in the modern days also among the brothers , there is a room for negative aspects as there is no room for them to share their feelings due to busy life and insecurity of lives.Under these circumstances without widening the gap , both sides has to make up the things with good thoughts and sharing of ideas.Then they will create a good and healthy relationships . Hence read Ramayana and realize yourself. BY MARRIAGE, ONE BECOME SELF CENTERED AS HIS WIFE OCCUPIES HIS PANCHA-PRANAS =1. PARENTS,2.BROTHERS, 3.SISTERS, 4.FRIENDS AND 5.HIMSELF. HE AND HIS FAMILY GRADUALLY BECOMES FIRST AND OTHER THINGS HAVE BECOME NEXT. THIS IS A NATURAL PHENOMENA AND NOBODY IS EXCEPTIONAL TO IT- INCLUDING OUR PARENTS IN THEIR YOUNG AGE. WHERE AS THIS KIND OF CHANGES NOT AROSE AMONG THE RAMA AND HIS BROTHERS AFTER THEIR RESPECTIVE MARRIAGES.BUT IN THE FAMILIES OF VALI, SUGREEVA AND RAVANA ,VIBHISHANA, THIS NATURAL PHENOMENA AROSE. ALL THE FAMILIES OF HUMAN-BEINGS ARE THAT OF VALI AND SUGREEVA AS SAID BY DARWIN AS WE ARE ALL FROM APES. NOW THE TIME HAS COME TO CHANGE OURSELVES AS RAMA FROM THE STAGE OF APES.THEN ONLY WE CAN CREATE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS IN OUR FAMILIES. vis verse to the wife.The wife PANCHA PRANAS are occupied by her husband and as such she depends totally on him and she will loose her independent thought of living and always lives in the thoughts of her husband and to gain control over him is the only ultimate goal to her and becomes very narrow in her thoughts and deeds as a part of natural psychology and natural tendencies.THIS IS A JUNCTURE TO KNOW WHAT IS GRUHASTA-ASHRAM DHARMA WHICH DEVIATES THE DEGREE OF LOVE AND DUTY TO BE RENDERED TO THE EACH MEMBER OF THE FAMILY BY EACH MEMBER OF THE FAMILY LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF. establishing harmony among the family members is a crucial one .SO READ RAMAYANA AND REALIZE YOURSELF.

WOMEN -TRADITION -MODERN - CUSTOMS AND SYSTEMS

IN THE AYODHYA KANDA, MAHARISHI VALMEEKI THROUGH RAMAYANA GAVE A CLEAR PICTURE OF WOMEN DHARAMAS. MATA KOUSALYA, MOTHER OF SITA, AND MATA ANASUYA EXPLAINED HOW THE WOMEN MUST BE AND IN PARTICULAR THE WIFE, THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAWS MUST BE . TAKING MATA SAVITRI WIFE OF SATYAVAN AND MATA ROHINI WIFE OF MOON ETC., AS A ROLE MODEL, THE WOMEN WERE FOLLOWING THE [STHRI ]WOMEN DHARMA S. OBEDIENCE, LOVE, AND DUTY MIND TOWARDS THE HUSBAND AND TOWARDS THE FAMILY OF HUSBAND ARE CONSIDERED AS WOMEN DHARMA S. IN THOSE DAYS IT SELF THEY CLEARLY STATED THAT THE HUSBAND AND PARENTS-IN-LAWS WERE ALSO EXTENDING THE SAME LOVE, KINDNESS AND DUTY MINDEDNESS TOWARDS THE DAUGHTER -IN LAWS. WHERE AS THE SAME LEVEL OF THINKING , TOLERANCE, KINDNESS, AFFECTIONS AND FOLLOWING OF EACH INDIVIDUAL DHARAMS ARE LACKING IN THESE MODERN TIMES BECAUSE EACH AND EVERY ONE IS BUSY WITH THEIR WORKS AND NOBODY HAS TIME TO SHARE AND TO EXTEND THEIR LOVE AND AFFECTIONS AND DUTIES AND HANDING OVER THEIR DUTIES TO OTHERS WHO WORK FOR MONEY.FROM KINDER GARDEN STAGE TO COMPLETE HUMAN LIFE, ALL ARE APPOINTING THEIR PROXIES FOR DISCHARGING THEIR DUTIES TO MEN POWER OR TO MACHINE POWER AND THAT'S THE ENTIRE FAMILY SYSTEM IS TOTALLY DESTROYED AND ALL ARE LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF AS PARTNERS WITH JOINT INTERESTS AS COMMON -IN-TENENTS OR COMMON TENENTS.

NOT TO PLAY JOKES WITH A LADY

ESPECIALLY , NO ONE SHOULD PLAY ROMANTIC JOKES, WHEN A LADY APPROACHED ONE WITH DESIRE AND THERE AFTER INSULT HER. IT WOULD LEAD TO COMPLICATIONS. THE EPISODE OF SURPANAKHA CLEARLY UPHOLDS THE SAME. BEING INSULTED BY SREE RAMA AND LAKSHMAN , SHE DECIDED TO TAKE REVENGE AGAINST THEM AND AGAINST THEIR FAMILY, WHICH DROVED HER TO DO ALL THE CHAOS AND FINALLY RESULTED WITH THE KIDNAP OF MATA SITA. HENCE ONE MUST LEARN FROM RAMAYANA. IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIVES ALSO WE ARE SEEING SO MANY INCIDENTS AND DESTRUCTIONS OF FAMILIES DUE TO THE CAUSE OF LADIES. SO BE CAREFUL.

GOLDEN DEER - CHANCES OF COMMITTING FAULTS

Yes, even though Mata Sita, Lord Rama are regarded as well versed persons in all aspects, they too committed faults after faults and not heard the warnings of Lakshman. Sree Rama himself rushed behind the golden deer for the sake of Mata Sita. Mata Sita herself involved in using harsh words hurting the personal and privacy feelings of the Lakshman, giving a room for Ravana to kidnap her . At this juncture, it is just to say that every one including the god himself , even though having knowledge about the happenings of their future , has to under go the bad period experience as per the Karma phala as already decided by the Time . In other wards to say, no body is above the Time and every thing is within the time frame - already of which screen play and directions were recorded , but that does not mean that nothing is there in your hands.With your efforts, you can change the course of the Time river and it's effects and consequences etc., depending upon your caliber and capacity. All the people who came across the problems in their lives, are the best examples for the above verses - in Chili nearly 34 members are trapped in the under ground tunnel of golden mine, from August to till this day and in that situation also they are sending consoling and bravery messages to their belongings who are awaiting for their arrival. Yes this is the best living example of facing problems with great courage like the heroes of Ramayana .Lord Sree Rama himself never claimed that he is the god but his works made him as god.Be care full of golden traps, now a days for easy earning of money ,so many people invested their hard cash expecting high returns in the share markets but due to sudden collapse of share markets in the entire world , so many people and companies fell on the road - golden deers of this millennium era . Hence please follow the Ramayana -come out of the crisis.

PROPER VISION ABOUT FUTURE IS NECESSARY

One must be trained himself to vision properly about ones future life. While judging , one should not be too anguish nor be over powered by jealous, greediness or deep-desired . Taking all facts into consideration of a particular situations and it's pros and cons, one has to decide what to do and how to handle the situation with a calm mind and without any prejudice. Manthara, and Mata Kaikeya imagined themselves unnecessarily about their future, to be frank to say that they went in to hallucinations , if Sree Rama coronate d to the crown and created a great chaos with prejudice and sowed a seed for Ramayana. Where as Surpanakha , Ravana are with a great over proud and thinking about themselves as super heroes, without thinking about their future and without considering all facts into consideration , with great prejudice and with deep desires ,involved themselves in to great troubles and become a root cause of collapse of the entire Rakshasa vamasa itself. When we compare both the situations , we can come to a conclusion that one should not be worried about his future too much like Manthara, Mata Kaikeya and in the same manner one should not be a careless and char less person about his future like Surpanakha, Ravana with desires. So be careful and learn so many things from this great mythology.

PANCHAVAATI - CENTER FOR ATTRACTION - MAGNETIC FILED.

YES, it is a great magnetic filed -Panchavaati where Lakshman exhibited his art of architecture while constructing a hermit home. Sreeram himself prised the Lakshman as viswakarma. Panchavaati becomes a center of attractions not only for beauties but also for tornadoes and as such SURPANAKHA - SISTER OF RAVANA, herself emerged as a great seed of a great war of Ramayana. This is a best example for reminding that everything is within the time frame. This mo-ha, Kama, = sexual desire, jealous Seed in the shape of SURPANAKHA , landed on the earth of panchavaati grew as a mah viruksha of mohagadandhakar tornado and involved every one as a prey of it and resulted in a great war of RAMA-RAVANA MAHA YUDHA . Speaking lies for the sake of lies and for the satisfaction of and for the lulling of one's sadism, racialism, bossism, etc.,kicks one and drove one bluntly into a great problems. At the beginning if one avoid this type of involvement in his life, one will be a safest person in the world.MANDARA DESTROYED MATA KAIKEYA, MATA KAIKEYA DESTROYED DASRATHA AND AYODHYA TO SOME EXTENTS, BUT SURPANAKHA DESTROYED THE ENTIRE CULT OF RAAKSHSA VAMSA. So be careful and learn so many things from the great Ramayana for solving your problems.

ARANYA KANDA - ART OF LIVING.

yes, one can get blessings from the great miserable situations, like Sree ram, Sita and Lakshman . provided one must know the art of living. what is the art of living is the question now every one of us is facing. is nothing but accepting the situations as it is, without any inhibitions and indifferences and one has to mentally prepare to face it and one has to treat it as it is a part of life. Generally we used to hear from others - that fellow is under going Saturn period and as such he is facing so many problems in his life and god only has to save him . How to get blessings from the disguise and art of living are one and same two faces of a coin. Then one can learn so many things in each and every step of his life, like Sree ram. Neither Sreeram or Sita nor Lakshman never felt sorry for the situations when leading excel life in the forest and on the other hand they learned so many things from the forest life and made it as a happy trip. like wise now a days also, we can see the living examples who made their lives successful in the great disguised situations also. Maharishi vashista also repeatedly said to Rama, that in our hands karma is there and other things are in the hands of god , if we did karma with great love and spirit in the same passion when we were in good position and if we love our way of living in the bad situations also as if we are accustomed to it , we can make wonders in that bad situations also without cussing the society or others or ourselves. By doing good karmas and by leading content life and without blaming others or ourselves, if any one lead his life in that Saturn period also , he can make good for the loss, would come out successfully from that bad situations.

AYODHYA KANDA - HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS PART-2

FOR LEADING A GOOD AND CONTENT LIFE, ONE HAS TO AVOID GREEDINESS, AND ONE HAS TO FOLLOW THE DHARMA . THESE TWO PRINCIPLES ARE ENOUGH FOR CHANGING THE ENTIRE LIVES OF US AND ALSO THE SOCIETY. GRUHASTA ASHRAM DHARMA, ,VANAPRASTHA ASHRAM DHARMA ARE ENOUGH TO FOLLOW FOR THE PRESENT SOCIETY, FOR KEEPING GOOD RELATION SHIPS AND GOOD CULTURED ATMOSPHERE AND TO AVOID CHAOS IN THE PRESENT LIVES. IF ANY ONE TRIED TO LEAD HIS LIFE ON THESE BASIC PRINCIPLES, ALL THE MISERABLES THAT WOULD COME ACROSS THE PATH OF HIS LIFE, NEVER HURT HIM MENTALLY AND WHEN HE IS STRONG MENTALLY, HE CAN EASILY CLIMB OVER THE PHYSICAL PROBLEMS LIKE SREE RAMA AND HIS BROTHERS AND LEARN SO MANY THINGS FROM THOSE PROBLEMS ALSO AND LEAD THE LIFE WITH SAME JOSH. SOME THING IS ONLY IN OUR HAND BUT EVERY THING IS WITHIN THE TIME FRAME AND AS SUCH ONE HAS TO UNDER GO EACH AND EVERY PHAGE OF THE LIFE AND PHAGE OF THE PROBLEMS ALSO. IF ONE LEADS HIS LIFE ON ABOVE SAID RULES, HE WILL DEFINITELY GET SUCCESS IN HIS LIFE. ALL THE BEST WISHES.

AYODHYA KANDA - HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS -PART -I

+ IS A SYMBOL [ OF PLUS ] FOR HIGH HUMAN VALUES AND IT HIGHLY ELEVATED THE DIFFERENT CHARACTERISTIC PERSONALITIES PREVAILING IN OUR FAMILIES AND IN OUR PRESENT SOCIETY ALSO. IN BRIEF THE GREAT EPIC STORY OF RAMAYANA GAVE A RIGHT DIRECTION TO US HOW TO LEAD OUR LIVES IN DAY TO DAY , TILL OUR DEATH. AFTER GOING THROUGH THE ABOVE SAID EPISODES, ONE MAY COME TO A CONCLUSION THAT RAMAYANA IS A JEEVANASRAVATHI AND IT IS NOT A STORY, IT IS OUR LIFE AND PART OF LIFE . IF ANY ONE FACE A PROBLEM, THEN ONE CAN LOOK FOR RAMAYANA , FOR GETTING SOLUTIONS FOR THEIR PROBLEMS. EASILY BY ABOVE SAID METHOD OF APPLICATION, ONE CAN SOLVE ONE'S PROBLEM. GENERALLY THE PROBLEMS ARE MONEY, FAMILY, CHILDREN, AND PROPERTIES. FAMILY PROBLEMS ARE TWO TYPES - PURE PERSONAL JUST LIKE WIFE AND HUSBAND PROBLEMS, AND ANOTHER IS BETWEEN THE MEMBERS OF FAMILY INVOLVING THE CONCERNS OF MONEY OR PROPERTIES OR AMONG BROTHERS OR SISTERS ETC., AND OTHER OUT CIRCLE PROBLEMS THAT ARE OFFICE OR OUT OF THE FAMILY CIRCLE PROBLEMS WHICH ARE TWO TYPES. ONE IS GENERAL AND ANOTHER OFFENSIVE NATURE. LIKE THIS ONE CAN SEPARATE THE PROBLEM AND CAN SPECIFICALLY IDENTIFY IT .

HOW TO APPLY FOR THE PRESENT LIVES

Divorce case :- Husband ; Wife : Parents and family members of husband ; parents and family members of wife ; reasons for divorce =addl. demands of dowry, harassment , impotency, non adjustments, psychological problems, and cruelty, etc.,.Due to greediness the question of additional demands for dowry would arise and it's consequences are generally harassment, cruelty etc.,.Due to egoism or due to personality conflicts psychological problems would arise and it's general consequences are non-adjustment, harassment, cruelty follows.Non-adjustments are two types , one is due to personality conflict and another is due to escape from liabilities. Generally the problem of additional dowry come from bridegroom family and non-adjustment come from bride family.The lost one impotency may come from wife and husband.--------------------------------------------GREEDY IS SYMBOL OF MATA KAIKEYA; THE ENTIRE FAMILY OF BRIDEGROOM OR THE BRIDEGROOM MAY FALL AS PRAY FOR THIS GREEDY ANIMAL . EVEN THOUGH ANY ONE IS AGAINST TO THAT BAD EVIL, HE/SHE IS NOT IN A POSITION TO RAISE HIS/HER VOICE AND KEPT HIMSELF/HERSELF AS DASRATHA for one reason or the other. ------------------------------------------------------------NON-ADJUSTMENT IS THE SYMBOL OF MATA KAIKEYA; THE ENTIRE FAMILY OF BRIDE OR BRIDE HERSELF MAY FALL AS A PRAY FOR THIS NON-ADJUSTMENT ANIMAL, EVEN THOUGH ANY ONE OPPOSE TO IT , MAY NOT ABLE TO RAISE THEIR VOICE AND BECOME DUMB AS DASRATHA for one reason or the other.Since nobody is coming forward as SREE Rama follower of dharma and discipline and BHARATHA follower of love and sacrifice, the newly married couples flight is crashing down miserably.The problem is not between wife and husband like in the cases of impotency. The problem is between the two families and each family think that they are correct and blaming the others. Generally provokes and re provokes would play a major role in these family disputes.So many family members act like Mata Mandara and provoking them at each and every time without giving any time to rethink. If each one of the family members follows the GRUHASTA ASHRAM dharma as did by Sree Rama and Bharatha and other personalities of Ramayana WHILE FOLLOWING RAJ-DHARMA , no plight would occur in the families and the question of divorce doesn't arise. As per Gruhasta ashram dharma only Mata Sita follows Rama in the forest.Since Mata Sita is his wife, Sree Rama took her to him without sending her to her parents house nor demanded her to get another Country for him as dowry.

HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE THE DHARMA, SACRIFICE AND SELFISHNESS, GREEDINESS

Why we are calling it as emotions from the days of Ramayana, is the only reason that it is a family affair but not any thing and as such one cannot call it as evil , plotting etc.,. .Mata Kaikeya, Maharaj Dasratha , Sree Rama and Bharata = one is symbol of selfishness, another is symbol of Achethana means tide-hands , third one is symbol of dedication=above to emotions and the last one is ultimate of sacrifice emotions. In present, one can see all these characters in our lives also. In divorce cases, the husband/wife=tide with hands; wife/mothers of both sides=selfishness ; husband/ fathers of both sides=emotions;[ Lack of other two characters like Sree Rama =dedication =beyond emotions and Bharata = sacrifice and emotions]. Some times these characters may change their respective places according to cases. As all are floating in their respective river of emotions, leaving their respective Dharma s, creating a chaos and driving for divorces .Wife means a sacred bond and the relationship of wife and husband and their duties [Dharma s] are the symbol of Gruhasta Ashram. Both has to look after the welfare of people around them with love and affection.But their respective selfishness and greediness driving them as mad persons and as such one is leaving another without finding faults of oneself. If any one among above said personalties feels about Dharma and Sacrifice and differentiate it from the selfishness and greediness, there will be no sorrows in human life.OM MAHA GANAADHIPATHAYE NAMAHA -VINAYAKA CHAVATHI SUBHAKANSHALU

DUTY [DHARMA] - SACRIFICE [DUE TO LOVE ]

The Guru Vashist and Maharaj Janaka clearly stated that the entire world is sustained on the word Dharma . The Dharma is rigorous and pious and personal , each and every one of us have to follow it and obey it as it is a final and eternal. Mata Kousalya clearly stated to Bharatha that even though Rama would follow her directions without questioning any thing , she could not ask the Rama not to follow the right path of Dharma and come back to Ayodhya without going in to forest for 14 years. Our feelings and our emotions and our loves and affections should not become as speed breakers , diverting the one not to follow the right path as it is not happy to them and as it is painful to them. Like wise, Sree Rama also asked Mata Kaikeya, whether he could leave the right path as nobody is there to question him. Sree Rama also said to Bharata that the Dharma could not be exchanged as a thing of barter system and it is purely a personal duty, each and every one has to follow , then only the society would sustain. when the situation arise what to do, in following Dharma or in following affections, one has to give priority to the Dharma only but not to love and affections and pains. In our day to day lives also, one would certainly has to face this type of problem at a certain point. For example in the middle class families, we are seeing so many quarrels in the day today family affairs and one is not able to solve the family problems as one is not able to say anything to any one in the family because of love and affections. In the Rama period, there were so many people like Guru Vashist, Raj Janka, Mata Kousalya, Mata Kaikeya , Mantri Sumatha ,to solve the problems. Bharatha is a symbol of sacrifice whereas Rama is the symbol of dharma. Of course, in the present society , we can not find such a beautiful personalities, even in our family members also but that does not mean that they are all cruel, selfish, loveless, and against to the ethics, morals, and dharma. When compared with the Society of that days and the present Society, so many changes have occurred and so many developments have emerged and stress life become a passion to our generation.For Keeping stress less and painless life, one has to judge himself and to find the thin line between dharma and love, and one has to follow the dharma as practicable as possible by giving values to morals and ethics of our lives, then only the society would be good in turn we would be also keep good.

WHAT IS THE LINE BETWEEN KARMA - DHARMA AND EMOTIONS

Mata Kaika and Bharata , Mata Kousalya and raj guru Vashista , Lakshman and Shatrungn , and raj Jakamaharaj and other people as admitted by them, were all floating in the river of emotions and as admitted by them, SREE Rama was not floating and was stance in his position of karma - dharma = following the orders of his father [Pithruvakyapalana]. Rama clearly stated that to take back the desires or to give the promises, was only in the hands of Maharaj Dasratha and Mata Kaika. Now Maharaj Dasratha was no more and as such even Mata Kaika expressed her willings to take back her wishes,it was become infructious as it was already under implementation i.e., contract was going on and as such in the middle of the work, it should not be stopped.[ For example "D" promised "K" to do some work by "R" , for the sake of "K". "R" agreed the work and accepted and received consideration also and started the work as desired by "D" and "K". Later for some reason, "K " alone wants to cancel the agreement. But R refused to cancel the same as he has not directly entered in to agreement with "K" and more so he has to repay the consideration to D and thereby R is going to incur heavy loss if the work was cancelled.Here the consideration means love, affection, duties of the eldest son of that Suryavamsa, received by him by his birth in that family ].

CHITRAKUTA - WHAT IS THE DHARMA AND THE ADHARAMA

CHITRAKUTA IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE - BHARATHA AND OTHERS WENT TO CHITRAKUTA FOR GETTING RAMA TO AYODHAYA. THE SIMPLE QUESTION WAS DISCUSSED THERE-MATA KAIKA WITHDRAW HER DESIRES AND DASRATHA WAS NO MORE AND THE PECULIAR POINT IS THAT RAJ DASRATHA NEVER SPELL SINGLE WORD ASKING RAMA TO GO FOR FOREST [ OF COURSE, IT WAS MATA KAIKA SPELLED SO MANY WORDS AGAINST RAMA IN THE PRESENCE OF DUMBED RAJ DASRATHA] AND FURTHER BHARATA HIMSELF ASKED RAMA TO ADORE HIMSELF AS MAHA RAJ. ALL THE PEOPLE OF AYODHAYA INCLUDING ALL WHO FOLLOWED THE CHITARAKUTA YATRA FOR GETTING RAMA, EXPRESSED THEIR STRONG DESIRE THAT RAMA WAS THEIR MAHA RAJ. NO BODY WAS THERE TO OPPOSE RAMA TO ADORE HIMSELF AS MAHARAJA. THEN WHAT MADE RAMA TO SAY THAT IT WAS ADHARAMA -IS A BIG QUESTION THAT IS DRILLING OUR MINDS.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I. WAS RAMA THOUGHT THAT IT WAS A GIFT OR A DONATION OFFERED BY BHARATHA AND KAIKA MATA ?[AS EVERY ONE BLAMED THEM].---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------II. WAS RAMA THOUGHT THAT SATYA VRATHA WOULD BE RUINED FROM THEIR FAMILY AND IT WOULD GET A BAD NAME TO HIS ANCESTORS ?--------------------. THIS TYPE OF SITUATIONS ARE COMING IN EVERY ONES LIFE ALSO , WHILE GIVING OR TAKING OR EXCHANGING OR PROMISING SOME TANGIBLE OR INTANGIBLE THINGS IN DAY TODAY LIFE. ONCE CHILDREN OR WIFE OR MOTHER OR SISTER OR BROTHERS OR FRIENDS MAY OPPOSE OR ENCOURAGE ONE'S DECISIONS AND IT IS ONE'S DUTY TO CHECK HIMSELF WHETHER HE IS CORRECT OR NOT BY STUDYING AND OBSERVING THE RAMA'S SITUATION.

EVERY RUINED JOINT FAMILY IS A REPLICA OF MATA KAIKA

The Maharajah DASRATHA cursed Mata KAIKA that no body would named her name in future,but the replicas of Mata KAIKA is still living in our present society in the shape of mother, sister,wife and daughter or friend etc., . But the great thing is that by nature she is not a negative character, she is very beautiful, care taking, promising character, full of lively personality, very affectionate and emotional human being just like our mother or sister or wife or daughter or friend. But at that situation she herself turned hostile and destroyed the entire family and happy atmosphere. Every body in this present society , is not that of Rama or DASRATHA and as such even for the smallest temptation also, reacting wildly and destroying their beautiful homes ,lives, future et., for the fire gutted by Mata KAIKA 's replicas. What the Mata KAIKA says that no body should act like her for greedy things with egoism and no one should be turned oneself as weapon of destroyer and later repented herself. Nowadays we cannot see such repented Mata KAIKA s in our society because hasting another become a passion to them. so we have to learn so many things from the episode of Mata KAIKA and it is our duty to safe guard ourselves and our souls from the reach of Mata KAIKA at our homes. ---------[this episode is dedicated to my mother smt. kamalamma].

OUR BEHAVIOR WILL SAY WHAT WE ARE

In so many families nowadays we are seeing the children are quarreling with each other for the share of properties of deceased father pending the conduct of death ceremonies. But we can not see that situation. Even though their mothers are not one and same. Following dharma and feeling dharma as their mother and father, Bharta and Sathrungana expressing their deep sorrow and trying put off the fires of jealous, greed , egoism etc., that surrounded their family and tried to establish calm and tension free atmosphere. That's why the Raj Guru himself appreciate the BHARATHA by saying that sun need not prove that he is a sun, his light itself says that what he is . Bharata himself is avatar of dharma and as such he need not prove that he is not a conspirator.By this episode we have to learn so many things from Ramayana as it is dealing with our day today lives and problems that are facing in our day today lives.No other way, except to follow the Ramayana to solve our problems. Absence of Bharata when mis happen was occurred in AYODHYA and misunderstanding of public about the Bharata as a conspirator, is within the time frame.

STRESS MANAGEMENT

when the lord SREE Rama called by Mata KAIKA and when she demanded him to go for forest for 14 years and to leave the country for the Bharata. The answers come from the very mouth of Rama , clearly shows his steadiness and comfortableness and stability and control over the situation which is very hostile and aggressive and vicious in all aspects . On the other hand , SREE Rama tried to console his father as if it is nothing but a silly thing as he has already accustomed to the forest life and also well trained for the forest life under guidance of SREE Viswamitra guru . Time already framed the incidents-following Viswamitra for yaga rakshna in to the forest under the great stress and strain circumstances expressed by Maharajah DASRATHA for leaving Rama and the same situation arose again to go for forest at the instance of Mata KAIKA and this time also the maharajah DASRATHA not willing as this time -a punishment. this situation discloses that one can handle the situations in a controlled manner without leaving balance and without abusing and blaming the others.with steady mind has to judge what is right and what is wrong. after that only one has open his mouth and express his wishes or objections. for safe guarding the dharma and satya vartha of their family, lord Rama determined to follow the orders of Mata KAIKA.

NO FATHER LIKE DASARATHA-NO SON LIKE SREE RAMA

FROM THE CHILD HOOD OF RAMA , EVEN AFTER THE MARRIAGE OF SREE RAMA, THE MAHARAJAH DASRATHA LOVED CHILDREN WITH SAME PASSION AND AFFECTION .BUT TODAY WE ARE SEEING THE FATHERS WHO TREAT THEIR SONS AFTER THEIR MARRIAGES AS DAYADIES. GENERALLY THIS PROVERB IS USING AMONG THE BROTHERS BY SAYING THAT BY BIRTH, THEY ARE BROTHERS AND AFTER GROWNUP, THEY ARE DAYADIES.BUT THE MAHARAJ DASRTHA LOVED RAMA AS HIS LAP BABY FOR EVER . THE DEATH OF SRAVANKUMAR PARENTS AND THE DEATH OF DASRATHA WERE ALREADY FRAMED IN THE TIME.IN OTHER WORDS IT CONVEYS US -IF YOU DID A WRONG THING WITH ONE HAND, YOU WOULD HAVE TO RECEIVE THE RESULT OF IT, BY ANOTHER HAND. THE SAME THING , THE MAHARAJA DASRATHA EXPRESSED IN HIS LAST DAYS. THE FATHERS AND THE SONS OF OUR DAYS, HAVE TO LEARN SO MANY THINGS FROM THIS EPISODE, AS THE JOINT FAMILY CULTURE WAS DESTROYED . NO BODY IS THERE TO EXPLAIN US, THE VALUES OF OUR CULTURE AND TRADITIONS.

AVOID COMMUNICATION GAPS AND BE STEADY

1. 1.TO DAY EPISODE SAYS MANY THINGS FOR US IN ORDER TO APPLY OUR DAY TODAY LIFE. 2.THE DREAMS OF BHARTHA CLEARLY UPHOLDS THAT SOME THING WAS WENT WRONG. 3.THE MESSENGER WHO WAS POSTED FOR CALLING BHARATHA AND HIS BROTHER SATHRUGNA, STANDS FOR THE GREAT DIPLOMACY AND DIGNITY, WITHOUT SAYING ANY BAD HAPPENINGS TO THEM, SIMPLY TOOK AWAY THEM FROM KAIKA RAJ YAM. 4.IN OUR DAY TODAY LIVES ALSO WE HAVE TO ADOPT THOSE POLICIES AND WE HAVE TO RESTRICT OURSELVES FROM NOT DISCLOSING BAD THINGS AT FIRST INSTANCE ITSELF. 5.ANOTHER ASPECT OF LIFE IS THAT WHEN HE MET HER MOTHER, HIS BEHAVIOR AND HIS OBSERVATION WHILE ENTERING AYODHYA,CLEARLY DISCLOSES ABOUT HIS PSYCHOLOGY- HOW TO MANAGE THINGS UNDER STRESSFUL CIRCUMSTANCES ALSO ,ONE CAN EXPERIENCE. BUT WE HAVE NOT FOLLOWING THOSE GOLDEN PRINCIPLES IN OUR DAILY LIVES. 6.ANOTHER ANGLES OF KAIKA MATA, AND MANDARA CLEARLY DISCLOSING THAT UNDER THE BAD IMPRESSION THAT NOTHING WAS DISCLOSED WHILE SELECTING SRI RAMA FOR THE POST OF KING,BY NEITHER THE MAHARAJA DASARATHA NOR KOUSALYA , TO THEM AND GOT PREJUDICE. WHICH CLEARLY DISCLOSES THE COMMUNICATION GAPS. EVEN THOUGH WE ARE VERY CLOSE AND COMFORT, WHILE TAKING MAIN DECISIONS , ONE MUST SEE THAT NO COMMUNICATION GAPS SHOULD BE THERE. ELSE, OUR OWN PERSONS WOULD HARM US